HOW TO NOT HATE ANYONE AND LIVE FREE ???

“True love is not loving a perfect person but it is loving an Imperfect person Perfectly”

Today i met a person , he told me some worst things that his family member did to him, then i met my friend and i just told him what that person told me and i came to know that he told my friend the same. This made me bit worried that why is that person telling his story, that we don’t know is true or not, to every person.

May be for Sympathy ???

May be for spreading bad rumors ???

Or May be , who Knows ??? 

Later i have forgotten it, but i came to know a story. I hope its going to help you as it did to me and you will learn from it.

One day A kindergarten teacher decided to let her class play a game.

The teacher told each child to bring along a plastic bag containing few potatoes.But the number of potatoes will be the number of people that child hates and the potato will have that persons name on it.

So obeying teacher every child brought the bag, some with few and some with more potatoes. Now the teacher told each student to carry that potatoes bag to where ever they go even at the toilet for a week.

Days after days passed by and the children’s started to complain due to unpleasant smell let out by the rotten potatoes.Besides carrying potatoes they had to carry a heavier bag to stop the smell to come out. After a week they were relieved as the game finally ended. Now the teacher asked every child that:

How did you feel while carrying the potatoes with you for a week ???

The children’s started letting out their frustrations and started complaining of the trouble they had to go through while carrying a heavy , rotten , smelling potatoes bag to where ever they go.

Then the teacher told them that ” this is exactly the situation when we carry our hatred for somebody inside our heart “.

The stench of hatred contaminates us & our heart and we spread that contamination to where we go. So if you cannot tolerate the smell of potatoes for 1 week , then can you tolerate the same in your heart throughout your life time.. ??

MORAL : Throw away the the hatred for everyone from your heart and let god decide sometimes , so that we don’t have to carry the load of the sins of others by hating them or talking bad about them throughout our life. 

Forgiving others is the best Attitude to take ….

Love to Read your thoughts … You have any ????

PRESENT …

Live in PRESENT …. That’s what most of the people say when u ask them how to stay happy .

What does that mean ? ….

Should i just stop stop thinking about what will i do after my graduation ?

OR

Should i just stop thinking that how to give the presentation to the boss in office tomorrow ?

“Present becomes past and present a few moments before was future.”

The above line, read it aloud and think. Do this 3 times every Morning when you wake up. You will see the change in you & your way of perceiving things & situations.

Living in present means to do what ever you are doing in the best way as you can. Give your best shot. Also, sometimes it’s about performing & sometimes about preparing , so do both at your best. Example … Thinking of what i will do after my graduation will give me 2 – 3 options , however decision is pending till graduation. So this is like preparing for better results. But giving it a stress & being worried will neither let me prepare nor perform.So as a result i might get low grades in graduation and close some of my options my self because they required good grades & that i don’t have.So it means i didn’t performed.

“Happiness lies in our hand & rest the Time knows better.”

“LIFE is a coin with Good days & Bad days as it’s two  sides.”

Most people start worrying in problems. let me ask you would worry solves your problem ? . No . ? .

Then why to worry , if you believe god then just pray with a pious heart and start acting towards that problem early or late you will get out of it.

So Live In Present . Prepare .. Perform .. Stay Happy .

Hope this will help you … Be open & Suggest … 🙂

REGRET’S

“Kill the Regrets in your life , Or be ready to get killed by them”

“Don’t Regret things you have done,

                         Regret the things you didn’t do when you had the chance”

I don’t know that how much life I have. But sometimes I am not able to sleep because what I wanted to do with my day is what I am not able to do. Like : when I want to study and I am not able to due to any reason , that night I feel like I wasted my day . This regret don’t lets me sleep.

Now this is a very common example & has consequences of small extent but let’s get to the point that what will we do when this REGRET is of a large extent as if not just about wasting a day but a whole life. Like:

How many of us want to regret on the last day of our life that “I ended up living the life that the society wanted me to live instead of the life I truly wanted to live”. ????

How many of us want to regret on our last day of life that “Because I never took any bold risks, so I never got any bright rewards”. ????

How many of us want to regret on last day of our life that “I never inspired anyone by setting up any example” ????

I don’t think anyone would like to have that … any one ??

The only truth of our life is that we will die …for sure … 100 %.. Then why not to catch the glimpse of mastery in being human in the present we have & create some milestones of achievements some of being radically helpful to others & some of  being helpful  to us.

We all alone create the life we get to live. .. So just think today , so that we don’t have to regret tomorrow & ask this question to our self that :

IS THIS THE LIFE THAT I LIVED ?

IS THIS THE ULTIMATE THING THAT I DID ?

SO , LIVE LIFE in such a way that you don’t REGRET in living that life. And when the death comes to you , then you must be saying that ” HEY, I DID MY JOB HERE. NOW PLEASE YOU DO YOURS.

🙂 …. 😉