HOW TO NOT HATE ANYONE AND LIVE FREE ???

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“True love is not loving a perfect person but it is loving an Imperfect person Perfectly”

Today i met a person , he told me some worst things that his family member did to him, then i met my friend and i just told him what that person told me and i came to know that he told my friend the same. This made me bit worried that why is that person telling his story, that we don’t know is true or not, to every person.

May be for Sympathy ???

May be for spreading bad rumors ???

Or May be , who Knows ???Β karma

Later i have forgotten it, but i came to know a story. I hope its going to help you as it did to me and you will learn from it.

One day A kindergarten teacher decided to let her class play a game.

The teacher told each child to bring along a plastic bag containing few potatoes.But the number of potatoes will be the number of people that child hates and the potato will have that persons name on it.

So obeying teacher every child brought the bag, some with few and some with more potatoes. Now the teacher told each student to carry that potatoes bag to where ever they go even at the toilet for a week.

Days after days passed by and the children’s started to complain due to unpleasant smell let out by the rotten potatoes.Besides carrying potatoes they had to carry a heavier bag to stop the smell to come out. After a week they were relieved as the game finally ended. Now the teacher asked every child that:

How did you feel while carrying the potatoes with you for a week ???stop-using-me-to-justify-your-hatred

The children’s started letting out their frustrations and started complaining of the trouble they had to go through while carrying aΒ heavy , rotten , smelling potatoes bag to where ever they go.

Then the teacher told them that ” this is exactly the situation when we carry our hatred for somebody inside our heart “.

The stench of hatred contaminates us & our heart and we spread that contamination to where we go. So if you cannot tolerate the smell of potatoes for 1 week , then can you tolerate the same in your heart throughout your life time.. ??

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MORAL : Throw away the the hatred for everyone from your heart and let god decide sometimes , so that we don’t have to carry the load of the sins of others by hating them or talking bad about them throughout our life.Β 

Forgiving others is the best Attitude to take ….

Love to Read your thoughts … You have any ????

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23 thoughts on “HOW TO NOT HATE ANYONE AND LIVE FREE ???

  1. Hi! That’s a nice story! I even reblogged it in my blog and readers will get a link to your blog now..
    Just a small correction. In the ‘Moral’, is the first word meant to be ‘Throw’? and you’ve also repeated the word ‘that’ twice.

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  2. “This made me bit worried that why is that person telling his story, that we don’t know is true or not, to every person.

    May be for Sympathy ???

    May be for spreading bad rumors ???

    Or May be , who Knows ??? ”
    There could be so many different reasons why. i think maybe the friend sharing his experience with you may have done it because he needed to share it and wanted your opinion on the situation.
    You posted a story about not holding on to hate which is a good lesson and very positive. Stay positive, try not to assume the worst of people and ask your friend why he told you and then ask how you can help.

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    1. i got to know he was lying … nothing happened exactly what he told .. he manipulated and told what shows he is correct .. but actually he was wrong … but still i respect your thought and will definitely keep in mind …. thank you for sparing your valuable time here … m glad …. πŸ™‚

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