You must be thinking of all the times you got failed or rejected in some or the other thing. May be in studies , relation , job or at any other place. You might have felt enormous pain , not physically but emotionally and mentally at that time, as if you don’t know what to do now and the world for you has just blown.
But what now ?
After those painful days now you might have overcome it or must be overcoming.
Have you learnt anything from it ?
Do you see any change in you because of that incident ?
These two questions have a lot in them to be told.
For example : It is seen and most of you, specially guys will agree with me that a BREAK UP from a serious relationship , specially when your lover leaves you and you bear that heavy pain and after a long fight you over come it and become a completely new MAN . You become Matured , you become very conscious about handling women and you actually learn that LIFE is not a piece of cake to just relax and eat.
I hope You agree with me ? .
So, it is a myth that there is Failure & Pain in Life because they are actually a Step towards your SUCCESS and Happiness.
PAIN in LIFE is the Best TEACHER as you never forget what it TAUGHT you.
Well we all wake up every day with a zeal to do something new and adventurous in our day but when we are asked What are we going to do ? and How are we going to do ? then we all get a bit shaken and there comes the fickleness in us. We start giving funny and ridiculous ideas some of which are too imaginary and the rest need time to be done and to give time is like next to impossible because we actually don’t know that in which portion of the day are we thinking to do that thing and what are the resources and people involved. In a layman’s language if i have to say something then it would be like WE DON’T HAVE A PLAN .
It’s not the lack of time that is stopping us to do what we wish to , it’s the lack of planning that is stopping us from doing and achieving what we want to.
So my dear STOP THINKING & START PLANNING.
Here are my top Secrets to help you plan your day in just 10 minutes.
This is the most important one. Sleep 15 minutes earlier to the time you usually sleep and wake up 10 minutes earlier than you usually use to. Now, After waking up and starting your regular day you have an extra 10 minutes today and so you have to use them wisely as i say. Sit down with a cup of tea / coffee / anything you like and a NOTEPAD (the mobile notepad will work). Now before taking your first sip of the day and before texting your first message of the day, Sit erect – Close your eyes – Stop thinking everything – just avoid each and every single thought in mind – take deep breaths and feel your heartbeat for 2 minutes.Basically here we have RESTARTED our BRAIN for a fresh new start of the day.
Now, Just point down each and every single Important or must do tasks. Write the time at which they need to be done (approximation) and also that how much time they are going to take. So that you will have an idea to do what and when and how much time is it going to take for its completion. This will help you in giving time to people when you are not busy. Also you can join some classes or do some course during that unscheduled time. You can avoid people who will kill your time slowly – slowly which will keep your mind and work healthy and stable.
The Last thing is that always keep some CUSHION time with you to do anything so that if any uncontrolled thing happens then you can just handle it in time. Also even if some very urgent piece of work has come then it is absolutely fine to reschedule your plan.
Always keep in mind that the main motive of Planning is to keep you state of mind healthy, keep you organized and give yourself time to do things you really wish to.
I hope you guys will definitely going to reap some good fruit from PLANNING. Although you can plan your whole week if you want and that will keep you more organized and focused towards your goals along with giving you time to have fun.
Do tell me how you find my guide.
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Well almost everyone of us is habitual to the habit of eating late night then going to sleep after a few hours, may be 1 or 2. This happens , i know but what i was shocked to know is that why we should not eat heavy diet at night. here i will give you the 5 best reasons to avoid it. here we go :
- It can cause ACID RE-FLUX : Have you ever suffered from unexplained post-nasal drip, cough, and difficulty in swallowing? . These could be signs of acid re-flux can occur without the telltale signs of heartburn and indigestion.Eating late at night, especially if you overeat and/or eat heavy foods, and then lying down shortly after, is a recipe for acid re-flux.
- Weight Gain : Eating at night has long been associated with weight gain. Years ago, nutrition pioneer Adele Davis gave her well-known advice to “eat breakfast like a king, lunch like a prince and dinner like a pauper.” I fear from this side effect.
- Disrupt Sleep patterns : Eating at night will disrupt the whole body cycle and will make you sleepy at unusual day times , thus leading to poor recovery and regeneration.
So i hope you guys from now will try to eat food at least 2-3 hours before the sleep and that too in less amount as it increases your health and at the end, Health is Wealth.
Blogging is kind of art that is not in everyone but the one who has it and knows it can’t afford to loose it. So after being a blogger for approximately an year and being enjoying it, i have decided that i will tell you the place where you can go and give your hobby a professional turn.
For most of the bloggers writing everyday is a mess because of lack of time but hose who write everyday have less money. So for those who write everyday and those who don’t i have a place where you can go and register yourself and start earning.
Here are the following two platforms where you can use your Social Networks and you presence on blogs as a source of livelihood or an extra income.
Both of these sites will ask you to register first either as an influencer or as an advertiser. You have to register yourself as an Influencer and then complete the process.
Then , there starts your journey to earn the money. However, this all depends upon what are the needs of the clients and in what way you are fulfilling them.
If you have any problem in working on them anywhere in the process , you can contact me here or on my Facebook account.
And please do mention here in the comments about the reviews of these platforms.
So , there is no long story , no big cheats nothing. Just one straight question for all of you.
Who is better : FRIENDS or Girlfriend/Boyfriend ?
So all of you guys and girls , I am waiting for your lovely answers …. Spit them out .. 🙂
Are you in search of Happiness?
Are you stuck in between your Life and Work ?
Are you trying to make everyone happy but not getting successful in it ?
Are you trying to keep yourself happy and jolly at work but are not able ?
Amigo. I can help you. There is a very simple recipe to happiness wherever you are. This recipe will make not only you happy but also each and everyone around you. This will work from your Life to the Work. This will let you manage everything on time and let you have your space too. The best thing is that It works for everyone , doesn’t matter you are from which gender or what work you do or where you are or who you are. It only needs you to play your role with justice and it will keep everything under control.
Do you know what is it ? Any guesses ?
OK. So here we are to the recipe.
The recipe of happiness is made up of 4 golden rules.
Give a smile to everyone when you meet , also to your enemy and never ever think anything bad for anyone because “when we will think bad about anyone then it induces a vibe of negativity in his/her mind also which creates Stress, problems and conflicts”. So try to be neutral about people.
Maintain a diary. Write the most important must do tasks of the forthcoming day in it a night before when you are going to sleep. These tasks can be from your exercise doing to office work completion. They can be any but they have to be the most important tasks without which you can’t afford to sleep the other night. Tick them as you complete them.
Speak less and listen more. Speaking less will increase your thinking power and will make you understand what the other person’s opinion is. Also note any good thing or important thing that the person has said so that you don’t forget it. But do speak where you think you can’t do anything for anyone because saying no to what you can’t will never let you be at the loosing side.
Fix your daily , weekly , monthly and yearly goals and resolutions and focus all your energy to them as a normal person thinks more than 50,000 thoughts a day and only 5 to 10 are about your goals but if you will be focused on your goals then these all 50,000 thoughts will be around your goals which will turn your goals into your achievements. And before leaving home and after coming back talk to each and everyone of your family members and at least one good friend you have everyday.
Hey friends , today although it’s very nice day here in chandigarh but i am feeling low. And i just , may be , need something good or jolly to rejuvenate my self . So i need your help and i am asking for it to all of you.
Will you guys help me ?
Will you guys help me in getting a smile ?
Can anybody among you out there make me smile ?
If yes, then please make it happen ???